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Wedding Planning Checklist

A month-by-month guide to planning your wedding in South Africa. Work through each stage and tick things off as you go.

12+ months before

  • Set your overall budget and how you'll split costs
  • Draft a rough guest count
  • Pick 2–3 possible dates
  • Start a Pinterest/inspiration board for your style
  • Research and shortlist venues
  • Book your venue once you've decided

9–11 months before

  • Book your photographer and videographer
  • Book your caterer (or confirm venue catering)
  • Choose your wedding party
  • Start dress and suit shopping
  • Book a planner or day-of coordinator if you want one

6–8 months before

  • Book florist, décor and hair & makeup
  • Book the officiant and confirm legal paperwork
  • Arrange accommodation and transport for guests
  • Send save-the-dates
  • Plan your honeymoon and check passports/visas

3–5 months before

  • Finalise the menu and do a tasting
  • Order invitations and build your website/RSVP
  • Buy wedding bands
  • Confirm the music — band or DJ
  • Book a cake designer

1–2 months before

  • Send invitations and track RSVPs
  • Finalise the seating chart
  • Confirm timings with every vendor
  • Do dress/suit fittings
  • Apply for the marriage licence / confirm documents

The final week

  • Confirm final headcount with caterer and venue
  • Pack an emergency day-of kit
  • Assign someone to hold rings, speeches and payments
  • Confirm transport pick-up times
  • Rest, hydrate and delegate

The big day

  • Eat a proper breakfast
  • Give the coordinator the master timeline and vendor contacts
  • Hand over final payments/tips in labelled envelopes
  • Keep the emergency kit close
  • Take a quiet moment together — then enjoy every second

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